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How To Fix A Relationship | Forget The Movie And Start Feeling The Vibe Again

There are many books written on the subject of “how to fix a relationship.” Often, the simple “cure” is to find ways for your relationship to “not” be boring.  Yes, the typical night out of dinner and a movie is nice but can get so old after a while.   Half of your night you are staring at a screen and not saying much except, “Can you pass the Raisins?”  Predictable evenings can just feel plain boring and blah!   So, how to fix a relationship?  Dates are great opportunities for you to grow your relationship if you create the right vibe and feeling.  Here are some ways of how to “fix” a relationship when things have become stale.

3 Ways Of How To Fix A Relationship Before Things Get Worse

Relationship Fix #1:  Out with the old & in with the new

Fun and excitement can help juice up your relationship.

  • Don’t you want to look forward to Friday evening rather than dread another boring night?
  • Spice things up and do something different.

I bet you’ve had thought of what you would like to do on a date and just never shared it.  Why?  Tell your partner what you like and it can open a world of possibilities.

Relationship Fix #2:  Nourish your love!

The key is to not be shy and believe in the power of your love.

  • The only way to grow your connection is to stop doing the same repetitive behavior day after day.
  • Mix it up and you will discover a whole new way of being in your relationship together.
  • Your relationship changes over time and so does your love.

Engaging new experiences will bring you closer and something to look forward to after a long work week.

Relationship Fix #3:  How to fix a relationship often involves to share your secrets

I routinely see couples who do not share their deepest secrets with their loved one.   If you really want to fix your relationship share what excites you!   Okay, you might be thinking this only happens in the movies or on Lifetime.

  • Why aren’t you and your loved one creating the same fun in your relationship?
  • Sit down with your partner and share the “Top 10 dates” that you never experienced together.
  • You will love what you find.
  • The greatest part is that you will have a whole new world to explore together.

Isn’t it time you released your fears of the unknown and invite your partner into your world?

As I often say to couples in my coaching program, “Change will happen once you invite it into your life!”

Questions about how to fix a relationship? Please share and leave your comments below.


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By Dr. Jeff Kane
By Dr. Jeff Kane

Dr. Jeff Kane is a Doctor in Marriage and Family Therapy and the founder of Relationships Unscripted. Over the past 20 years he has helped couples re-ignite their spark, passion and have great sex in their relationships. Learn more about the couples coaching programs, free webinars and Ask Dr. Jeff your burning relationship questions at

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